I remember with Hayden, I just waited it out, and he basically potty trained himself. Ady is a completely different story. We buy her princess underwear, dora underwear, and even cute Gap underwear, but she refuses to wear them, at our house anyway.
My next move is Ni Hao, Kai-Lan underwear (a nick jr show Ady LOVES)...
Here is a video of what I go through at home.
Evidently, at daycare, she wears underwear, and even uses the potty. I don't believe it... Every time we try at home, it's a struggle to even get the underwear on. Putting her on the toilet consists of her screaming her lungs out, and getting off of the toilet. Five minutes later she does 1 and 2 in her big girl panties.
Here are some cute pictures of her with her pretty panties... notice they aren't on though.
She insisted on laying them all out in a row.
No way mom.... I won't go!